Wednesday, November 7, 2018

Tips on How to Train Up your Kids


"Every Child Has a Distinct Talent... Every Child Has a Potential to Shine" 
#KiddosGotTalents #TipsOnHowToTrainUpYourKids

by Cherry Moriones Doromal


I didn't know that one of my oldest and most neglected Youtube vids has so far reached 56k views? heheh. Effortless posting for my personal archive. As Strongboy said: "my humble beginnings🤣🤣🤣" Such a practical comedian! (See entire post below 👇 #scrollup please)
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The "NOW"
FRIEND: (Applause) Wow, congratulations!  Strong is an excellent pianist and Zekie is such a beast drummer? Who taught them?
ME: In musical instruments, they practically learned ONLY the basics from me, school and tutors... and as to their present skills, they learned by themselves. So, credit to them😊
Hubby and I had  introduced everything to our kids at the earliest age. Again, "INTRODUCED"... Meaning, we had them try various activities for 2-10  sessions and allowed them to choose later which to take seriously --taekwondo, swimming, cricket, basketball, archery, fencing, painting, football, robotics, karate, arnis, speech,modeling, theater, voice, foreign language (Mandarin, French,  Italian), culinary, firing, basic driving lessons, golf,biking, motorbike (scooter in the meantime🤣),  dance, scuba diving, handball, violin, piano/keyboard, melodica, flute, drums,guitar,  and so forth.
Even then, we didn't expect that they would excel or be skilled in every single thing on the list. 😊However,  those exposures became helpful for them to determine their interests and to develop life skills.
So, in brevity, here are my quick tips in traning up your children:
1. Introduce various skills to your kids. How?
A. By simple orientation
B. By showing  what it is, eg. demo or have them watch
C. By having them experience (my top choice!)
2. Start early. Assess which skills are practicable for your child. For instance, check out if your child could start drawing at 3 or 4 years old.  As regards Zekie, I gave him toy #drumset at 4😊


 3. Give your full support... (you are at liberty to define or to execute it in the manner you interpret "full support". It definitely  depends on various circumstances as well as on your goal. Eg. The goal of being future  Olympian, and  "just exposed", and being a professional coach and hobbyist  are 4 different stories which require different levels  and genre of support)
4. DO NOT COMPARE  your child with another person's child. All people have their own individual differences and strengths.
5.Believe in your child, appreciate your child,  respect your child  and allow him/her to grow.
6. Pray for your child. The reality is that we can only dream for the best for our children and even provide anything... within our limits. Nothing is certain in this world. The only sure shot I know is that we NEED God's powerful hand and wisdom every step of the way!
https://youtu.be/a4trh08XdK4

Basic Drum Fills by Zekie Doromal

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